This week was a great conversation about the reality of what the holidays can bring to the surface when it comes to changing the normal routine/tradition. (Did you miss it? Check it out: https://www.facebook.com/yourmoxiecoach or https://www.instagram.com/your_moxie_coach/ ) How many of you felt that it hit home with some of the lists, suggestions, and ideas with dealing with family when change is necessary?
We cannot control others, which sometimes makes disappointment from others difficult(we always seem to have preconceived ideas of how things SHOULD go before events). As much as you try to make things perfect, somehow- your expectation is broken. Can I give you some advice? Expect your thoughts to be \’BROKEN\’ before they even begin. In other words, expect nothing from others…Only yourself. How well do you know yourself to know that it\’s going to be up to you to make or break the outcome of how you enjoy the holidays. Different from past traditions or not, the meaning of the your thoughts will BE BEST when you prepare for no preconceived celebration expectation. You will have the most enjoyable family gatherings with yourself(and others) if you expect nothing from the people around you. You will have little room for disappointment, just move forward taking care of your responsibilities.
I know you will have a blessed holiday with family and friends. Keep your expectations low, your spirit celebrating the season, and a drink in your hand! You will get through this month! Make a list of your responsibilities to help secure your mind on what YOU need to take care of(without relying on others)!