VERY recently: we hear a lot of advertisements, bloggers(yikes…that\’s me!), and just every day conversation talk about the right \’MINDSET\’ WHAT is that? Do you understand the word….? What can a mindset do to guide you?
Well, as your coach- I feel obligated to explain the concept SO when I talk about it with you~ you don\’t roll your eyes any more that you already have at my \’try LIFE this way…\’ concept (please believe me, as a certified CPC, that does not mean I have all the answers~ nor does it make my life perfect(pssst. no one\’s life is perfect!). I\’m only here to help you to see different perspectives, open your view that sometimes becomes cloudy or limited as we grow into adults. Do you have to do things my way? Hell no. You are FREE to make all your own choices, actually- I encourage you to be yourself 101% of the time. [Just remember- as you make decisions(impromptu actions are always the RISKIEST) you need to keep in mind \’how will this choice affect my future circumstance…?\’] There will always be a ripple effect- good or bad.
Anyway, back to MINDSET(oxford languages) noun : the established set of attitudes held by someone. OR for a more modern style~ MINDSET(urban dictionary) noun : outlook towards life.
Where do you start? Ummmm, let\’s go with a more descriptive question: What do you want in your life? POOR EX: become a good father, fall in the love, make more money
\”Why are those bad examples….? That\’s what I want…..\” Let\’s be more specific…pin-point that goal in your mind and say it in the present tense… CORRECT EX: I am a more patient father, I am going to fall in love with someone that I will love me for exactly who I am trying to be(which is a badass- ha), I will make an extra $1,000.00 a month
So…What do you want? Make that goal for yourself. Keep it written down- in the present tense, like above. Put it somewhere you will see it every day. Watch the changes happen by changing the way you think! You want success- changing your MINDSET is the key! Try it. I\’m here to help or answer questions.