How was your week? Regardless of your over-all thoughts on the week…You survived another week of dealing with adult emotions! Hahaha. Great accomplishment?!?
Do you remember when you were a child and you would see relatives after a few months, and they would tell you how much \”you\’ve grown\”…At what age did that stop? I\’m presuming late-teens? The irony of this situation is when you stop growing physically, that\’s the time we begin to become MORE familiar with our emotions (Remember, not everyone knows- but you do~your thoughts create your emotions).
The best feeling during that stage was probably liberating…Do you remember that? You were no longer following your parents daily life! YOU had the freedom to make the decisions based on what you wanted(and that\’s usually a mix of either complete rebellion of your \’base\’ life OR you try to follow the path of your family life/morals.) Looking back, how did those years go for you…? Do you still follow the same thought structure that you did from the first years of adult independence? (It\’s habit, it\’s you) What have you changed? Step outside of your memories and look at your past in a wide panoramic view. Overall, what would you say your #1 feeling about your past emotional developments would be as an adult? You accomplished SO much in those young, hard years of figuring your adult-self out! Great job. There are no regrets for what you have done, what you have said…You did your best. There is nothing that can be changed.
If you don\’t like what you see in your panoramic past…View your future as a blank picture! You can make it look however you would like…Add all the positives you want to happen…AND the negative (believe it or not- they are usually 50% of our life, so plan accordingly~ it\’s just the way it is! PREPARE your mind!) Oh, and be prepared for the unexpected, that will really throw you off- if you aren\’t ready!
This is it. This is how you step back and look at your mind. Your thoughts in the past cannot be changed. But look ahead of your MIND being a panoramic…your \’thought road map\’ will determine the outcome of your emotions. Be prepared. Life, like I said above is 50/50…The bad is inevitable as we are all HUMANS with thoughts, feelings, actions, and circumstances. Be prepared for anything. Start thinking with a positive mindset, ready yourself for disappointment. Study your mind from the outside and know that you have complete control of YOUR thought/emotional outcome(not anyone else\’s) You\’ll be even better than you ever imagine! (Your positive mind will help with that…) You\’ll be ready with your thoughts expecting and preparing for all circumstances(you cannot control those!). Work on it. As an adult, when someone will say to you: \”You\’ve grown so much!\” It will have a whole new meaning, and just imagine how that will feel. Never stop improving!